If your child has a valid issue consult an attorney in your area. (I also let him have her on thanksgiving, christmas and other special events because I want us to be in both of her life even though we no longer are a couple, also so she would never feel like she was picking one or another.) This was that she (her step-mother) spits in her face, slaps her face and hits her with objects. So I was granted full sole legal and physical custody and father gets no visitations until he goes to court and pleads with judge. I sent our son and my daughter who saw him as daddy to visit. Could you have miscounted? Of course he is threatening with court and we are in the process of filing an emergency motion. Not her father. I know it sounds like a stupid question but I want to be sure that he cant take my child away from me. Not during his parenting time, and one of my children is not his child. What a concept.! CPS saw my texts and my daughter talking to me all fine. She has taken the court order and abused it telling the principle that she has sole decisions on all matters and can do what she ants in regards to the children without my consent. He intends to fight me for custody of my son, and is interfering with my rights to custody. Is this justice? Him and his family ganged up on me, pushed me right over the edge. If a person with respects to being the parent or in association with that parent interferes with communication or visitation as laid out in a court order it is either considered obstruction or in other terms parental alienation. Remember what I said though as interference with communication or visitation as laid out within a court order. WOMAN, GROW UP. are you seeking custody as well? I only live 5 minutes from him and have not said he cant meet her somewhere other than his house. I also had to make several reports to CPS and the cops. Thank you, We have 50/50 custody of the children but my 11 year old is in middle school and is released at 3:40 pm and the office closes at 4:30 pm. Perhaps its time for Mom to go back to court and get custody???? My ex-spouse withholds visitation even though our divorce decree states we have joint custody. The parents live in seperate states, the father picks up and drops off the children each summer. second, you say your father in law was told and ordered to watch over the kids this doesnt sound right because if its not in a written court order it means nothing cant be enforced and cant be appealed. Principles of the law of family dissolution, analysis and recommendations, the American Law Institute, 2002 with updates. Divorce from a spouse is not a divorce from your children, nor should custody decisions be used as a punishment. We went to court for four years over and over again before she finally showed up. She refuses to let me have contact with my daughter and at this Time I have no paternal writes due to we where not married and i was incarcerated during my daughters birth. He goes on Family vacations with his new wife and his 3 and 4yr old sons without her. The longer you let things ride, the worse they are in your favor and your childrens favor. No that isnt much to get my time with my son although Ive done this for 9 years! A hell of a lot more than him. Take her social security number off of here!!!!!! I need to see my son and the brothes and sisters from a previous marrieges that live with me cant see them too. My brother was granted monitor visits. My question here though is about something she does every week. we found out from the child! The child would be much better off with us, but we dont know if the courts will make that change based on that. Now, If the 17 1/2 year old child decides he wants to spend the entire 2 weeks with the noncustodial parent (his dad). Seeing the age I think you are dealing with a child (mind you this is outside perspective only) a child who wants to spread her wings and a parent who is just tightening the grasps as a parent. There is no order saying I cant see my son, the judge left it up to my ex. He probably scared that girl off, if shes smart. You can not move out of state without getting a modification in the home state to relocate. If after two attempts, they dont negotiate, you sent notice that the Order comes into effect by (2 weeks or something reasonable). As a result of her actions I hired one attorney in Florida to file the contempt order and may have to hire another there and I dont have money for either. This chapter covers custody of minor children, whether to a parent, grandparent, or other relative or non-relative. Wowsounds like youre tired of paying his child support for him..huntyjust remember that the things men do to their exs is sometimes doomed to be repeated on you.if he has a type then that means you are it and so is she.be more constructive and stop tearing the other woman down because she gets your husbands attention.just be quiet it has nothing to do with youaccept that and you will be better off because in the end it will wind up being what he tells you himself.dig?dont take on his battles if it doesnt require.. Take her ass to mediation. The mother has my kids lie too me about certain things. Do you want your kids or the money. reported to the world that I was a stand up parent, better than most. My daughter and her sons father have a voluntary joint custody agreement. The judge just recently realized he had never gotten visitation. Others are saying I should not let him see our child. That is not their problem or their concern. I feel like it is very unfair. Yet the father is seen driving around illegally and still foing drugs,not paying child support and he us Scott free! (2) he knowingly takes or entices from lawful . I could not seeing how I was not aware of situation, we were living together at time and he phase this planned, as soon as he had custody, he left with my infant, she was 3 months at time. Reporting things will only give you a piece of paper. i am in the same situation, my ex wont let me have my kids on my visitation time, 3 years and the police and courts wont do shit about it. Do I have the finances to fight this case? You may be surprised to see he may give you what you want if he sees you kindness and can trust you again. It was no court order that would stop/prohibit for seeing him or even calling to check on our sick son. We want to get married and raise the kids in a normal family!. I stand with you brother. I have contacted Child Protective Services, yet she convinces the investigator that I am just filing to harass her. Whos responsibility is it? Next day she refused to tranfer custody, I called police, they confirmed her refusal but could not do anything since no court order. We do have an appt with his lawyer but not until Thursday (lawyer out of town). lolNOnot without both parents consent could the grandmother have any rights to the child. first of all she has to have that medication so she can keep her food down!!! I clearly stated to CPS that I did not want him to be around his dad without supervision and now he has him. Did I do wrong by keeping my son? But my question is, I just found out that the father is a register sex offender! My ex-sister-in-law has taken my child and Luke out of state she thinks that she has guardianship but the papers were just filed with the court there was never a judges signature but in the guardianship that was filed was Her and my brother as co guardians but moved without telling us and now she has blocked all contact with my side of family. My babys father (the cutodial parent) is currently in jail. god bless you. and tell ourselves that we are worth love and protection. His daughter wants to come here her mother just wont let her. The Custodial parent has offered a Cruise for Spring Break to the child without discussing with noncustodial parent. Their dad has already given my 4 year old PTSD in which he had to do over a year in therapy for, and most recently he coached my son to lie and say that my best friends son sexual lyrics assaulted him. Thank you so much for your time. Watch on. My new wife and I just went on our one year anniversary trip. I have done everything I can to keep things civil between my ex wife and I, Ive helped her w buying clothes for our daughter when she couldnt afford to buy them..I am doing everything I ca n to stay civil w her but her boyfriend or fiance or whatever he may be to her complicated things Easter Sunday upon meeting me at a local truck stop topick our daughter up! And Legal Aide will not help us. Personally I would like to do something bu my son will probably file for visitaion interference or something like that. I called and filed a report, it was taken very seriously. She was in honors classes and chorus going to Universal Studios this year. The grandmother has filed motions to intervene that have been thrown out and even requested temporary custody (again this was thrown out) while waiting for a hearing this summer. to give the mother power and once thats done, its very hard to undo. Remember to try to be flexible and collaborative with him since you basically have all the time with your kids and he basically never sees them. Google your state code for Interference with Custody thats what makes it criminal and not civil and forces them to help you, but if you dont know that they wont tell you. It is best for you to file a motion with the court as soon as possible requesting an order for sole physical and legal custody. The court sees you as another file folder on their desk and they want you out of there as fast as they can get rid of you. Very, very befdkba good! AGAIN, IN MY PERSONAL OPINION AND EXPERIENCE! They never hear his attory words. and O. Sr. broke up, O. Sr and O. Jr. were very close despite the fact that O. Sr.s work takes him overseas. Their mother has allowed him to make his own decision of whether to visit for the past year. There is a court order for visitation but no specified times. I have 3 kids with my ex who lives in AZ. My daughter has asked me to file for custody which i am in the process of doing, Aside from the abuse told to me in my daughters letters and phone conversations Do I have grounds for parental alienation. Its recommended to seek legal help when the other parent causes invalid interference. that what my 11yrs old had told grandparents and his mother. They take him to school, pick him up, help him do his homework, feed him dinner and put him to bed. I told him no. Send certified mail telling the parent they are in contempt, record all your voice mails you leave, etc. Then you will come to the internet and play the blame game as if you are entitled to something and the other parent is doing what they shouldnt. Most judges are very causious to go down that road as it can open up a tit-for-tat putting the child in the middle. If my ex does not let my girs call me every thursday like the judge order what can i do? he is mad because the state made him pay child support so he pays around 700 a month for 4 out of 5 kids. He has not seen the kids since July 08. I am not an attorney, you are not an attorney, but you are a parent research STATE CODE. The next time he drove him out of state and his car broke dwown, where-upon they slept for three days in a Wal-Mart parking lot until a stranger offered to let them stay at her house and he took my son there and stayed. We got divorced 6 years ago in NH, with her having primary physical custody (Not the same as sole custody according to NH parenting plan form). I am a witness of these things as a woman who feels since women are the majority of the problem against fathers rights, there have to be women who stand up in the opposite direction. One time we ran out of court after her just so he could tell her he loves her and she acted like he was a monster. He managed to be most of the time on time , sometimes late but he is doing is best because he doesent want to get in trouble . She ended up going with her dad that day. If you do not return your child to his or her other parent at the right time or on the right day, then you could be held in contempt of court. May the best in you both come out, because of the love of the child you two created together. May I object to complaint for enforcement of health care expense payment if CP has not allowed me to be part of the decision making process nor the care plan? Custodial interference in the first degree. We were went to court 4 years ago and a lot has changed. She also helps the child lie to say she is one place but then goes some where else. The counselor reported it to CPS and they said there was nothing wrong with this. my county said I should never have been arrested and that i would have to go to his county to file a complaint. We have never kept him from her. Receive small business resources and advice about entrepreneurial info, home based business, business franchises and startup opportunities for entrepreneurs. you are her dad. the father of my kids told me he has been filing police reports because i havent been letting him see the kids well thats what hes telling them but the real reason is because i havent taken him off child support he knows where we live and my phone number but since our court date in november he hasnt been trying to see them or call just the few days ago he sat in his car outside my house for about and hour and left didnt even try to knock on the door and than last weekend we were coming home and i saw him turning out of my street with his wife didnt attempt to turn around and come back are those police reports legit can he use those on me me an him had an agreement i take him off child support he stops coming around for the fact that he doesnt want to be financialy responsible for the kids what can i do. I went and brought him home, on July 6th its court ordered he goes to visit with father till September 6th, however both my daughter and my grandsons father are making plans to leave my grandson with his father, and my daughter will continue to reside somewhere in NJ. father has been molesting him probably his entire life. My question is this, my ex-husband got remarried and moved to another state. but she gets away with it because she a paralegal really. I have residential custody of my son, hes 17. Finally, I just got fed up with it, and I took him to see Branden instead of waiting for Branden to come up to see him. So me and my wife are legally seperated since 6/11 she is pregnant since 7/11 with a man whou has assaulted her broken her wrist and threatened me via text from her phne we were in diff states so the police did not follow up on the harrasment. If you dont get it right then, dont get madkeep track of everything and if/when it is appropriate or there is a major change of circumstance file for a change in custody. The teachers write my ex emails about my activities at school. A single parent raises a child single handedly. Now I cannot say that a judge will automatically give the primary custodial rights over to you but a judge will look adversely against her and your chances are much better until she fits for custody back after cleaning up her act. Is this legal? Borrow money from someone if you dont have it and go get your child. We are also taking her to court for contempt in May so she will have to answer for what she is doing. What's custodial interference? Mother has primary custody in CA (where the court order was issued). Next day she refused to tranfer custody, I called police, they confirmed her refusal but could not do anything since no court order. 720 ILCS 5/10-5.5. No contact what so ever.. Ive stayed away because only trying to see my children made him more furious. His mother doesnt like me and degrades me to them. They will look to see how important this issue is to you. ( Court order is for Friday & Saturday, every other weekend). Good luck. My son is 6 years old and I have joint custody with his father. I am the parent/legal guardian as her father and I were never married. The worst part is that he now has my daughter brainwashed, to the point that she says things like we (meaning her and her dad) are a team, we are moving on, and we dont want mom to come around. She has also accused me of killing her dad by stressing him out because he asked me to move back in to help with the bills and I refused. Top-requested sites to log in to services provided by the state. She file for custody and it was denied. I am writing you in desperation. there is a LOT more to this story.but my question is, since the 12 year old will not e charged with a crime and the 7 year old is scared to death to go to their house because of this incident an many others.is there ANY way my husband (being the father) can get full custody of at least the 7 year old in order to keep him safe??? remember in florida its the 12.941(d) form, I had to use it and once she had to go to jail for a night she decided against playing with the order. I will at some point have to get a lawyer involved I am sure but up until this new job money has been tight and now that things are finaly turning around for us, the ex wants to cause any kind of trouble he can. my question to you is my brother is a sex offender. My ex has the kids three weekends a month and orders state that no school holiday time is to be switch unless we agree on it. The 17 year old is autistic. The only person who gets hurt in these situations are the childrenespecially the ones who cant have a relationship with there father (most times) or there moms because they are tooo young to decide so the courts do it for themThey shouldnt have been left to go with them in the first place They will not beable to have a relationship with any other family members who were in there lives. My ex refuses to let me see our 13 yr. old son. And all this past week after he pulled that on me and said that hes going for Full/Soul custody so I cant see my son ever again. In the mean time my daughter and I lost all contact, they changed her cell #, they painted me out to be a horrible person and the last time I saw her or hugged her was 3 years ago. My daughter has now left the state to protect the baby. Your son has to get out of the victim complex and fight or he will be another statistic and so will his child your grandchild! He also leaves them with his mom and goes to work during his parenting time which was scheduled around his supposed days off, his mom will keep the kids until the ended visitation scheduled time and lie about it. i am waiting for the paternity results for my child. Can i leave the state and file for legal separation and custody in maryland wothout his permission. Hes just filed modification of child support to reduce due to unemployment bc he was convicted (felony counts) of stealing money from his company. I went to the police with my divorce decree and they filled out a report and told me to be on my way. But here in NY they will do everything and anything for the woman up against a man. She has not payed any of the doctor bills even if the divorce said she is reponsible for 33%. Do you not think that the Court will see your brief notification as a unilateral demand and then if you call the police or say kidnapping and then say I have no job or money I cant even pick up my child per my own agreement that you are not going to look like a very good parent???? I filed a contempt of court order. He was awarded sole physical custody of our child with a Circuit court Judge taking my rights away. But, Im done with you In the paperwork attach a copy of the plce report and request immediate temporary custody. He claims that it is only valid as long as I reside in the state of Arizona. If you have visitation of a child and/or children and the actual custodial parent does not come to receive the children you should call the police and get that documented (to avoid beng charged with kidnapping). My son does not want to go back after visititation. I had to get another attorney that turned out to be a complete A-hole and was incompetent as can be. 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